A Surefire Way to be Unhappy
“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.” -1 Timothy 6:6-7
At the center of many a bitter and unhappy heart lies discontentment. In the midst of the folly of anger and dejection lies a spirit of entitlement.
We believe that nothing bad ought ever to happen to us. We believe ourselves, in practice, to be gods: deserving every pleasure and pleasantness of life. We are entitled to be happy and entertained at all times. There ought not to ever be a dull moment. There ought not to ever be a period of waiting, earning, or any such circumstance that would require a measure of patience.
And perhaps at the heart of discontentment, there is desire: that is to say, lust. We are filled with lust. We want things for ourselves. Lust only looks out at what it doesn’t have, and thinks of ways to take what it wants. Yet love looks out at what others lack, and thinks of ways to give.
When we focus on all of the things that we do not have: all the possessions that we do not own, all the happiness that we see others enjoying, the prestige and honor that others have obtained, and the apparent pleasure others indulge in with a carefree manner, our hearts say, “I WANT.”
It is this “I want” mentality that is a surefire way to be unhappy. We want the rose, but not the thorns. We want the garden, without the weeding. We want the house, without the labor. We want the spouse, without the sacrifice. We want the resurrection power without the cross to crucify us.
When we look upon the things that we lack, rather than on the things that we possess, we think we are being “ambitious for godliness.” We are really just being greedy. We are not enriching ourselves, but are rather increasing our own poverty. Godliness with contentment is great gain. Godliness without contentment is appalling ingratitude and limitless selfishness. Is not the salvation and grace of an infinite God enough for us?
Socrates has said that “he who is richest is content with the least…” in a physical sense, this is true. We ought not to settle and be content in our hunger and thirst after righteousness, until we have found God Himself, and His blessed Son—this is that “godliness,” which, if we are content therewith, is great gain. Yet in this world, we brought nothing in, and it’s certain that we’ll carry nothing out. In this aspect, contentment is very great gain.
A Scriptural Example
Consider king David: filled with wealth, power, and even pleasures. He already had beautiful wives, especially Abigail, whom scripture says was of a “beautiful countenance.” And yet he fell into sin with Bathsheba because of his discontentment: he saw her, and though he had had more than his fill of beauty, he did not have that beauty. He focused on the things which he lacked, even on a married woman that was forbidden to him; his discontentment swirled in his head, until he demanded to satisfy his own selfish hungers.
In this example, we see how even one of the richest men from a material standpoint could still not be satisfied while a spirit of discontentment lingered within his breast. We see that ingratitude for God’s providence leads to a surefire disappointment.
“Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied.” -Proverbs 27:20



